#relatable
#i love that#Jessica Jones#is a NORMAL MESS#not the cute adorable kind of mess so many female characters are constructed as to make them appealing to men#not the giggly non-threatening smiling ‘oops i need someone big and strong to come and help me’ mess#no#Jessica Jones is just a mess#a grumpy exhausted traumatized (BUT COPING…mostly) mess who is allowed#to eat and shit and not have a clean apartment and not have pretty hair and blushing cheekbones#she does crap like forget to charge her phone and wears shapeless ugly mostly practical clothing AND NO HEELS#the hot male love interest is the one shown in all his shirtless - just showered glory (bless)#Jessica squints and scowls and slouches and dear god i will never ever get over#how continually and explicitly this show treats women being told to smile by men AS AN ACT OF COERCION AND CONTROL#bless this fucking show (via @racethewind10)